Grief over the loss of a pet

Millions of families around the world have pets and consider them as full-fledged family members. Therefore, the grief and sorrow caused by their death is just as real and comparable to the loss of a relative, whether due to old age, illness, or an accident.

For many people, the loss of a pet is their first encounter with death. The way they cope with this early loss can significantly influence the development of emotional skills for facing future bereavements.

The emotional responses are diverse: sadness, anger due to others’ lack of understanding, guilt for not having done more to help, or regret for not spending more time with the pet during its life.

It is recommended to express these emotions, speak openly and naturally about what happened, and allow time before considering a new pet—ensuring emotional stability and avoiding the urge to replace the deceased pet by projecting its memory onto the new companion.

Having the opportunity to say goodbye in a formal way is a key differentiating factor in grieving the loss of an animal. A farewell ritual serves as a commemorative act in their honor—such as planting a tree, holding a gathering, or reciting a tribute.

At COINCIDIR, we support families who are going through the loss of a pet, or who have already experienced it, by helping them navigate the grieving process.